No marriage is perfect, don’t panic! We all have an idealized version of marriage in our heads, especially when we first get married. But the truth is, no relationship is without its challenges. The difference between couples who thrive and those who struggle often comes down to their approach to problems. When things get tough, remembering there’s no such thing as a flawless relationship is being realistic. Marriage is about working through issues together, not avoiding them. Don’t panic if everything doesn’t always go according to plan; trust that you can handle it, as long as you both stay committed.
There is no love in marriage.
Most people get married believing the myth that marriage is full of everything they have longed for. The truth is that marriage is an empty box when you first get married. You must put something in before you can take something out. There is no love in marriage. The love is in people and their love is put in marriage. There is no romance in marriage, you must infuse it into the relationship. A couple must learn the art, and form the habit of loving, serving, praising and continue to be a giver of keeping the box full. If you take out more than what you put in, your marriage box will become empty.
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