Blaming & Accusing

Blaming and accusing usually starts with “You.”

  • You’re always making us late
  • You didn’t take the trash out
  • You’re never where you are suppose to be
  • You’re never here when work need to get done
  • You never ask me how I feel
  • You always bring up the past

Being intentional and looking for ways not to point fingers at your spouse would be a more beneficial way of handling issues in marriage.  Adults want to be treated as such.  Shutting down is easy when one feels they are never appreciated.  How to overcome the obstacle:

  1. Have a conversation about it